Let me ask a question for anyone who is reading this.
Who do you think knows the Patient better, and what she is capable of doing, as well as to what her physical condition is. The son who has been dealing with her for years, on a 24 hour seven day basis, or the casual worker who has dealt with her no more than a half dozen times over the last two and half years?
It has been nearly two hours since Edna left, and you know, I am still in a state of disbelief, and anger too. I mean, honestly, I don’t understand some of these workers, who have experience, who may even have knowledge about things I know nothing about. And yet, it would seem to me, that if you give them the routine, that they would at least try to follow it, instead of totally ignoring it.
Mom CANNOT WALK, at the moment. Our family Doctor believes she had a stroke, but her ability to stand is still there. However it is shaky at best, and she has pain in her legs. Moving from a sitting position, to standing then turning to sit in a wheelchair is hard for her.
So Edna’s solution is to keep her in bed. Yeah, let’s make her into a complete invalid, when not necessary.
Edna’s other solution is let us put the wheelchair in front of Mom, so there is a barrier between Mom and her, and have Mom get into the wheelchair that way, ON HER OWN. Uh yeah, let’s have Mom fall over and crack her head, or worse.
I mean when you explain things to her, she seems to listen, but then proceeds to ignore everything you said. Like telling her to keep the standing to a minimum, and to insure that Mom has her legs under her, before she stands up. I even showed her at the start, but no, Edna can’t remember that, because well, that just isn’t how it is done.
The whole purpose of seeking additional help in the afternoon, was to insure Mom had a change, and light wash in her private region. Figured it would be better to have a female do it, and besides, Mom seemed reluctant to have her depends changed in the afternoon.
Whatever her reasons are, by having someone come in to do it, makes her get up, and helps keep her regular. I mean the goal is to get her up, take her to sit on the commode, then do a depend change, fresh nightshirt, and a bit of a wash. That was the plan, and well, it worked yesterday with Anjoli, worked with Mariana on Tuesday. NOT WITH EDNA TODAY.
Sitting on the commode isn’t fun, so when I did it, I would leave the area, to give Mom some form of privacy. Besides who wants to go to the biffy, with someone watching? Both Anjoli and Mariana instinctively went out of the room. NOT EDNA.
Like who wants to have a poop or piddle, with someone in your face? I mean while she puts a hand towel over Mom’s crotch, for some modesty, she kneels in front and natters at Mom, asking if she is done yet. THATS COMFORT RIGHT EDNA?
I suppose I could go on, for just how wrong it all was, and how stressful it is. But what is the use? It isn’t like either VIHA or BEACON COMMUNITY SERVICES give a rat’s ass about how these people treat their Patients.
All VIHA cares about is how much they supposedly save the taxpayer by contracting this important work out to some MAKE ME MONEY OUTFIT.
All BEACON COMMUNITY SERVICES care about is how much money they can make, so they can afford to pay their CEO A QUARTER OF A MILLION DOLLARS A YEAR. Doesn’t matter if they hire workers who haven’t a clue on what to do, or who care. As long as they show a profit, which is pretty neat trick, when you consider they are supposed to be a NON PROFIT ORGANIZATION.