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A Worker is a Worker, right WRONG

  • Posted on December 5, 2010 at 10:28 am

I am sure, that many out there, think I am a bit nuts, a bit obsessed with the idea of keeping the same regular worker visiting & helping Mom.  After all, one worker is the same as any other, so if they are all trained, capable, what does it matter if one shows up today, another tomorrow, and so on?

Basically, it has to do with PREVENTION.

I don’t check Mother’s body for new marks, bruises, etc. I mean I am a guy, she’s a she.  Sure, when I do the creams for her, or do a nightshirt change, I look, as best as I can, however I am not giving her a shower, like the regular workers do.  I am not seeing the whole picture, the under her arms, the upper back, or chest.

Old people bruise easy, when on Coumadin (blood thinner) they bruise even easier. However, when you also have Brittle Bones, bruising can be signs of something more.  In addition, she has skin that is losing its elasticity, so tears happen more easily.

These are things a worker can spot, but the rub is, if they’ve never seen her before, or its been months, they aren’t going to notice the small stuff.  Those things will go unnoticed, until suddenly they become major issues.   THAT COULD BE TOO LATE THEN.

Last Thursday, Mom was plugged (constipated) first thing. The fact that we had our regular worker, made mom less nervous, less apprehensive.  It eased her mind, solved the issue too, but later in the day, while trying to get up to go the bathroom, Mom had a spill.

She rested on a cart we use for her, which she shouldn’t have done. The cart leg buckled and down went mom, head first into a space heater, heavy wooden plant stand.

The sudden fear that pops into one’s head, is gut wrenching, to say the least. She hit hard, her head banged up against a solid wooden plant stand. Her whole back hit the floor hard,  her legs twisted, and you know what is running through your mind as you race to help her.

Fortunately, it seems nothing was broken, no damage that I could see. The Doctor checked her out Friday, didn’t notice anything either. Her blood pressure was up a bit, but then that’s normal, after you take a hard spill. 

We get over things like that, quickly. Old people DO NOT.  It lingers, it makes them more wary, nervous, which in Mom’s case isn’t a good thing. Isn’t for any elderly person, but with her conditions, it is a bit worse.

Now, the long of this whole story, is that for the next few days, one has to pay special attention, to bruising, to soreness, that may not show up immediately.  In Mom’s case, the day of the fall, and Friday, there was no sensitive areas, no hard bruising, or other tell tale signs.  Doesn’t mean there won’t be, as it can show up several days later.

Having regular workers, who know her, who see her regularly, means they WILL notice these subtle changes.  It means, they can spot something, before it manifests itself into something far more serious.   Things like cohesive thoughts, like slurred speech.  These can all show up later, but IF the worker is new, they won’t notice.

For VIHA & BCS, they don’t think of these things, or if they do, they simply don’t give a rat’s ass about it.  Their one and only concern is PROFITS.   VIHA wanting to keep within a budget, so they can afford the half million dollars salary for their CEO, and BCS so they can afford the quarter of a million dollar salary for their CEO.

The failure of BCS ( aside from hiring untrained, or incompetent workers )is that they simply can’t manage their employees, to insure that their patient load is properly staffed, by regular workers.  They need to get a map, so that workers are moving from one patient to another, in an efficient manner, instead of the Helter Skelter method they do now.

Bottom line is that BCS needs to spend money, to insure they hire trained & qualified home support workers, then assign them to a Patient, and not move them around at will. They need to have workers who are designated as Substitutes, so that when a regular worker is sick, is on vacation, they can fill in, without disrupting hundreds of other Patients, while BCS schedulers play some weird version of The Amazing Race ( reality show on television ).

Short term impact, is that it can be expensive to have the added staff, but long term, it means less extensive hospital & medial expenses for the Patients.  And given how we pay for Universal Health Care, that means a savings to the taxpayer.  IF we have less elderly patients, in need of hospital care, of additional medicines, treatments, then WE SAVE.

Course, aside from the money aspect, it also means we give our Elderly, SOME DIGNITY & RESPECT, after all, they are the one’s who built this city, this province, this country.

VIHA & BCS many not care, BUT SHOULDN’T WE?   I DO.

Sixteen Years of Experience but of what

  • Posted on November 3, 2010 at 11:12 am
This entry is part 6 of 12 in the series Making A Difference

So today’s delightful substitute was Agnes.

She claimed to have many years of experience, in providing home support care for people, but I wonder, for what kind of people?  Were they bed ridden, or mentally challenged? Were they actually HUMAN?

When you enter a home, with a chip on your shoulder, rest assured, I’ll be quick to knock it off.  Rudeness & Arrogance will only get you a steely stare and I will STAND LOOKING OVER YOUR SHOULDER.

One might warm up to her, over time, but you know, I doubt it.  This is one substitute, in a long list of many, that is never going to set foot in our home again.  I don’t give a rat’s ass at how much experience she claims to have, because frankly she doesn’t know a damn thing about caring for an elderly women.

When MOM has to tell her to go easy, to walk behind her, I tend to doubt that she knows squat about working with an older person, and that is just the beginning.  Like uh, you dont force runnes on a person with brittle bones, you take your time and work it on.  NOT AGNES.

No, there is no doubt in my mind now, that it is time to take the gloves back off, to unleash all I can, to insure that Beacon Community Services is put under a microscope, and that those who cover for them, are put under an even more intense public scrutiny.

It is time to try and make VIHA, and our Government, ACCOUNTABLE.

Dementia, Osteoporosis 2

  • Posted on July 9, 2009 at 6:32 am

The Doctor said it was to be expected, that as one gets olders, things happen. Brittle bones is just one of a host of things, that aging seems to inflict on people, which makes me question GOD a little. I know, they say one should question the Master Plan, but I do. Then too, I am Jewish, and it seems to be a part of our heritage.

I have to admit, I know virtually nothing about this disease, this infliction. I do know, that if we eat the right foods, we can help hold it at bay, which has me examining the foods we eat, all of us. I have David to keep in mind, as well as myself. And he is a handful too, given his eating choices are quite bizarre, if not downright challenging.

To begin with, he doesn’t like vegetables. I mean none, and is very picky on what he does like. For example, he won’t eat veggies, but prefers I add a can of Campbell’s Vegetable Soup when I make meatloaf.  Fortunately, he’s a milk and cheese person, so that is a plus, it seems in fighting, or warding off, osteoporosis.

Bananas are another good food to have daily, which helps as that is what Mom has every morning. However, from what little I’ve read, it isn’t about just one item a day, but about a cumulative total.  For example, Mother who is 92, should be having a dietary intake of Calcium of about 1500 IUs.   Myself, I should be having about 1000 IUs, daily.

Then there are the foods, that actually rob the body of Calcium. I still haven’t found out much on that, other than salt, but it is a learning process. Too bad that the official sites don’t seem to carry a complete or full list. IF they do, they sure don’t make it easy to find. I guess, in some respect, they are seeking funds, more than in providing the information needed.

It seems to always come down to that.  MONEY.

Dementia, Osteoporosis

  • Posted on July 8, 2009 at 7:21 am

Nice combination to get hit with, isn’t it? Oh and let’s not forget the high blood pressure and the hernia either.  Did I mention she is ninety two?  I feel gut kicked about now, as I try to digest all this.

The Bone Density test was not good news. It seems Mom has Osteoporosis, which simply means, brittle bones. By itself the more common name doesn’t sound so bad, does it? And yet it is serious. Basically it means that if left untreated, a simple bump can break a bone or two. A simple little tap against the wall, can break an arm, a leg.

Of course, the biggest worry is what could happen, if she has a fall. Any kind of fall, not even a serious one, can lead to some serious bone breaks, like a hip. That, for some reason, scares the hell out of me, because she has fallen. There have been times, when she’s fallen, for no apparent reason. Fortunately she never hit her head on anything, or broke anything… yet.

My initial thought, was how can I cushion the floors more, better soften the walls. I know, stupid, but you think of these things. Now, every time she moves, I wonder, will she bump against something, will her wrist break as she tries to push herself up from the couch.

Like just now, I heard a bump, and rushed to see what it was, if she was okay. She was just closing a cupboard door, yet the sound, the noise, triggered the old nerves & imagination. I don’t know how others do it, not even sure I know if I am doing it right or not. The idea is there now, and I don’t know how to cope with it.

Traditional treatments are there, but because of her hernia or whatever it is called, those drugs have increased chance of creating serious side effects. Like internal bleeding, ulcers, stomach cramps, and worse. Naturally, with our luck.

Untraditional treatment is no guarantee either. It has about a 2/3 rds chance of helping to reduce the risk of bone breakage, but it costs $800.00.   Now I am not rich by any stretch of the imagination, but how do you say no? You can’t, I mean you have to find a way, and okay, to many $800 isn’t a huge sum, but it is to us.

It doesn’t get better.

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